Step 20 - Loving Too Much Loving Too Much

Created by the UK's leading Relationship
Specialist, Helen Mia Harris

Programme Steps

Step 20

1 – Workbook Check-In

If you haven’t already done so then please read the chapter “Love Equilibrium Unbalanced – Pursuer vs. Pursued” starting on page 175.

Following from step 19, the diagram below, which also accompanies the workbook, explains more about the dynamics between a Love Addict (pursuer) and Love Avoidant (pursued). In 2. below I provide a video where I discuss this diagram in detail.

2 – Video Explaining Unbalanced Love Equilibrium

The truth is we are not afraid of being in love, we are afraid of not being loved in return…

Helen Mia Harris

Workbook Recommendation

Having watched this video I recommend you read the section starting with the chapter called “Love Equilibrium Unbalanced – Pursuer vs. Pursued” which you will find on pages 181 to 197.

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It is also wise to have face-to-face grief counselling or relationship therapy as this programme is by no means the absolute cure for the acute despair one can experience at this devastating time. If you are experiencing: panic, depression, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, anxiety or separation distress, it is vital that you also make an appointment with your local General Practitioner; this can be coupled by seeing a therapist or psychoanalyst in your local area.
Guarantee:
I am confident that this programme will help you to find your way past the devastating experience of lost love and sadness.
Provided you take the time to go through the therapeutic workbook and 6 eBooks on how to survive a broken heart, love withdrawal following heartbreak, which is woven around my own personal story and all the videos and guided journeys to alleviate anxiety symptoms.
If you have done this and you are still unhappy, I will give you your money back with no questions asked.